Tinder Opener for men and woman

You've gotten a hot new match on Tinder and can't wait to go on your first date. But there's a problem! There's one more hurdle to overcome - the Tinder opener. Really good Tinder openers are not easy to find. There are many things to consider before choosing a particular Tinder opener.

One thing you should keep in mind when coming up with a Tinder opener is that women will be bombarded with tons of messages. So you need to come up with creative and nifty Tinder openers that will more or less force them to respond. We've developed a few Tinder openers and tested them for you!

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What is a Tinder Opener?

What is a Tinder opener anyway? Think of it as the Tinder version of a pickup line. If you meet a charming girl in a cafe and you are interested in her, you have to start the conversation with one sentence. The way you start the conversation will make or break your chances. If you say or write something wrong, you will be ignored, or she will even leave the conversation. Resolve Tinder Match.

What is there to look for in a Tinder opener?

As mentioned before, the Tinder opener will determine whether or not you're able to pique the interest of your potential date. Here are a few things to keep in mind if you want to write a Tinder opener that will resonate.

Tinder openers are not about flattering the person. Because that usually comes across as pitying or needy. Women don't like that (subconsciously) at all! You must never give her the feeling that she is the only one with whom you talk / write.

If your significant other knows that you have no other option, your chances of getting a response are already very limited. You should show with your Tinder opener that you are open-minded and at the same time interested in getting to know her.

The best Tinder opener

What is the best Tinder opener? Yes, this is a question that everyone asks themselves. Unfortunately, there is no easy answer to this question. But I can show you my best Tinder opener. At least, I got the best results with it. But be careful, this TInder opener comes across a bit arrogant at times. Some women take it as a joke, some react a bit funny.

My best Tinder opener was so thoughtful that I filtered out women who couldn't take compliments or jokes. In general, I always write my Tinder opener a little provocatively and with a few smileys so it's clear that this statement shouldn't be taken 100 % seriously.

This Tinder opener was developed in German, it may not be as well received in other languages!

The best Tinder opener for men

Hey [your name]😊,
great match there have yes 2 pretty foundπŸ˜ŠπŸ˜‰

Best Tinder Opener

More naughty Tinder openers that work!

Use naughty Tinder openers to increase your status. It has been proven many times that women are into it. But cheeky does not mean rude or even insulting! In the pickup scene, this is a common practice and is called "Cocky & Funny". This means humorous, funny, cheeky and a touch arrogant all at the same time. It is an art in itself that everyone can and should learn!

There's nothing worse on Tinder than clichΓ©-sounding Tinder openers. Especially when they are applied insecurely. You should always be aware of what your Tinder opener triggers in the woman and how she might react to it. It also depends on how you bring it across.

Important here is the use of emojis (e.g. wink). This makes the woman aware that she should not take these statements 100% seriously. Healthy women will understand this and just melt away! Not all women will understand, some will have a stick up their ass - but you probably want to avoid boring women anyway. If you're looking for boring and uptight women, then you shouldn't use this type of Tinder opener!

I've had by far the best results with naughty Tinder openers so far.

Tinder Opener #2

Hey [her name] 😊,
I don't really understand how Tinder works.
I see we have a match, are we officially in a relationship now? πŸ˜„

Tinder Opener #3

Hey [her name] 😊,
Great match, When do we start making wedding plans? πŸ˜ŠπŸ˜‰

Tinder Opener #4

Hey [her name] 😊,
When our friends ask us where we met, what do we tell them πŸ˜€.

Tinder Opener #5

Hey [her name] 😊,
You have apparently really nen good taste in men πŸ˜‰

Tinder Opener #6

I was once incredibly in love with a [her name] when I was 5... πŸ˜€

Tinder Opener #7

Here is the wifi password. Sooner or later you'll ask anyway... πŸ˜€

Personalized Tinder Opener

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Personalized Tinder openers can help you get things started. You want your significant other to feel like you've looked at her Tinder profile and learned a few things about her. You want her to feel like she already meets all the criteria for a relationship with you.

Take her provided information and create a perfect personalized Tinder opener. Show her that you've done your homework on her. She may have even made an effort with her Tinder profile. So show her that she didn't do it for free! Go into her pictures, her hobbies, or the text in her bio.

Remember, you're trying to get a response to your Tinder opener; if you write something personalized you increase your chances many times over!

Here are some personalized Tinder openers:

Tinder Opener #8

Apparently you are a big fan of superheroes. Superman has come to save your weekend! πŸ˜ŠπŸ˜‰

Tinder Opener #9

Sporty active and then a picture with ice cream and cotton candy... how does that fit together? 😜

Tinder Opener #10

Hey [her name]😊,
Are you wearing the yellow shirt so people can find you if you get lost on the beach? 🀣

Appear responsible

When you're trying to get a partner to respond to your Tinder opener, you want to give the impression that you're a gentleman. If your Tinder opener has any sexual undertones, you will be seen as a naughty person who is only looking for pleasure.

Your match will analyze you based on your Tinder opener, so think twice before clicking the submit button. You will be perceived as needy or perverted if you start your conversation directly with innuendos.

Your potential date wants someone who can offer him something of value. Someone who can help him improve as a person, you will increase your chances of winning her heart if you can position yourself to possess the qualities she is looking for.


Tinder openers have a direct impact on your success. It's worth spending some time on them. After all, you can use your Tinder openers over and over again. Stand out from the crowd!

The above Tinder openers should give you some innovative ideas and help you get a lot more dates. It's best not to copy these Tinder openers verbatim. Rather, our Tinder openers should inspire you to come up with your own.

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